Are you a school interested in using MoE PLD hours for PLD with MAM?

Be kind

At the end of each of her show’s Ellen DeGeneres says “Be kind”. 

You don’t have to go far today to find T-shirts, art work and numerous stationery items that state this or something similar. Our consciousness around this concept is growing.

I do however wonder if this only goes one-way for some of us. Do we actually stop to reflect on whether we are being kind to ourselves?

Here are a few questions to support your self-reflection…

  • Do you place mammoth expectations on yourself to get things achieved in unrealistic time-frames?
  • Do you hold-back from sharing how you are feeling?
  • Do you use language such as “I should” or “I’ve got to?”
  • Do you drive yourself to the brink of near burnout?
  • Is your internal voice harsh and derogatory?
  • Do you allow energy vampires to suck the life-blood from you?
  • Do you often place work ahead of you-time or family/friend time?
  • Do you let people come into your life who don’t honour you?

…and the list goes on.


These are all forms of self-sabotage. Self-awareness and self-kindness are major antidotes to this.

As well as putting kindness out, how about you turn your attention inward and send a little kindness inside?

How about you give yourself permission to:

  • Ask for help
  • Take some time-out
  • Do something for yourself
  • Say “no”
  • Say “yes”
  • Say “enough!”

This week let’s turn a little of that kindness inward.

Take it deep into your heart-space and honour yourself for the incredible person you are.


Middle Leader Coaching and Mentoring

Are you a leader of an organisation or school who is intent on growing your middle leaders, but not quite sure how?

Are you spending time mentoring and coaching them on-the-hop and feel you could be supporting them better?

Maybe with the best of intent, you place them on a one-day course, but these are like a drop in the ocean; they provide some tools, but once back in the face of work, their use can fall-over. This leaves them feeling frustrated and confused, and can sometimes make an even bigger problem for you to deal with, and will eat into your already precious time.

More details here


Leave a comment

Your email address will not be published.

Contact Mary-Anne

I want to help you and your organisation.
Tell me what you need, and I’ll be in touch real soon.

Yeah, you're ready to Level-Up your Leadership

Enter your details and we'll be in touch when new dates are announced.